One of the things I realize now that I am a "grown-up", is that my Mom is the smartest and most amazing person on the planet.
1. My Mom was thrifty, she was 'green' before 'green' was cool - case and point:
-Old ketchup bottles became new water bottles.
-Old paper bags were new text book covers.
-We washed and re-used all disposable paper goods.
-This list could go on and on...but I'll spare myself the embarrassment.
2. My Mom was honest, and realistic:
-"Silence is agreement."
-"If you need an answer NOW and I'm not ready to give you one, it's automatically NO." (unfortunately we weren't creative enough to re-phrase our question from "Mom, can I sleep over at my friends house? TO "Mom, can I NOT sleep over at my friends house?"
-"If you really want to fight, come over here and duke it out. The rest of us will watch." Note: that was generally a scary enough prospect to call immediate truce.
-"You're wearing THAT out? Please, child. At least take a jacket." :-D
3. She knows just how to respond:
Noah: MOM, I HATE YOU!
Mom: I hate you too, Noah.
[Stunned silence and reflection ensues.]
...but knows just how to listen:
Me: Mom, I'm pregnant. What do I do?
Mom: Love that baby. What else would you do?
4. She spent time teaching us the things that matter MOST in life:
-Walking in to her room, kneeled in prayer, is one of the most comforting memories of my childhood.
-Meeting was never an option.
-And yes, bible studies every morning, even during [*gasp] summer!
So you know, in my ripe age of 28 and a mother of 2 sweet thangs, while most dread the thought - I think of "turning in to my Mother" and swell with pride to imagine one day living up to all the greatness she IS.
I love you Mama. For all you are, and all you will be.
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| Mama on Prom Day. |













